Ultimate Promotion Package
(J. Bon Jovi, R. Sambora)
This was a huge Number 1 Hit for Bon Jovi from the New Jersey album.  It was
also historical as the first Number One record written by the team of Jon Bon Jovi
and Richie Sambora without Desmond Child.  But what
really makes this
awesome ballad so special?
Honesty.  If you read the lyrics, they are filled with a vulnerability and topped with
some of the most honest things I've ever heard.  This is not just another 'please
don't go' song.  Lyrics like "Words can't say what love can do" go much deeper
than that.  It's a promise and a declaration, it's something that a lot of people tend
to shy away from- it's a commitment.  
Some great lyrical tricks that were used include some clever, yet poetic metaphors
like "I heard your suitcase say goodbye", "You say you've cried a thousand rivers
and now you're swimming for the shore", "I'll be the water when you get thirsty",
and "when you get drunk, I'll be the wine".  
Musically, I think Richie Sambora's influence carries the song here and his
appreciation for blues lends itself perfectly to the style of it, especially during the
guitar solo.  Of course, the guitar riff at the beginning is really catchy too.  Listen
closely to the background vocals (also done by Richie) and you will hear some of
the best harmonies in music on lines like "I wanted to be your Valentine" and
throughout the chorus.  Richie also adds some real emotion by following the line
"Darllin' you know my hands are dirty" with "woman you know my hands are dirty",
sung with heart from the soul.  And what more can you say about Jon's high note
after the bridge except- impressive.
Angel/Aerosmith
Atlantic City- Bruce Springsteen
Breathe- Faith Hill
The Dance- Garth Brooks
Eye of the Tiger/Survivor
Foolish Games- Jewel
Good Vibrations/Beach Boys
Help!- The Beatles
Here Is Gone- Goo Goo Dolls
I'll Be There For You/Bon Jovi
I'm With You/Break Away- Avril Lavigne/Kelly Clarkson
Independence Day- Martina McBride
Iris- Goo Goo Dolls
Suspicious Minds- Elvis Presley
Yesterday- The Beatles
The chord progressions are well placed and perfect for combining the power
ballad feel with catchiness and emotion.  One of the "Magic Chords"*, B minor, is
used in the chorus as it works really after a D major.  Another technique, "The Big
Three"*, is also used a lot in the verses, the bridge, and the chorus.  By repeating
the chords used in the chorus with a few "whoa"s added at the end, they are
inviting everyone to sing along and it seems like they are heading for a fade out,
but instead, notice how the song is brought full circle to a definite ending with
three strongly emphasized chords followed by the original guitar riff.  I think that
the New Jersey album in general took their writing to another level and "I'll Be
There For You" is a great example of that.  One of the most impressive things
about Bon Jovi is that they seem to get better with each album, which is
something every artist strives for.   
*(To get more information on "The Big Three" technique and to see the entire list
of "Magic Chords", check out the
Ultimate Songwriting Course, and the Basic and
Deluxe Courses in the Courses section.)
 
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